Every Kind Word
I once challenged myself for a week to say every nice thing that came into my head. No matter if it was silly or superficial, to a close friend or to a stranger. Even if it made for an awkward moment, where everyone stood staring… I decided I would say aloud every single compliment, kind remark, or word of approval that I thought. It was surprisingly difficult. It did result in awkward moments! I had no idea how many good things I thought, but kept to myself, until I had promised myself to give voice to them. It was difficult at first, but quickly became easier. I have found that since that original challenge, I am much more prone to speaking the kindness in my heart and mind than I ever was before. It is a habit I now consciously work on. Why is it that we often hesitate to say the kind word? Have you ever regretted saying something kind, complimentary or affirming? By contrast, how often have you spoken in a hast...